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Blogger Fails | I’m Human Too

Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

I opened up on my IG Stories about how I am human too. I want to share my blogger fails with you in hopes that this encourages you that my life is not perfection! My Instagram and blog is the face of my brand but I want to help share behind the scenes and let you know that LIFE happens for me too….and it’s ok. 

Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

I won’t expand too much on each photo because, well, they are self-explanatory lol! I will, however, say that when I first started blogging I would be SO embarrassed at the photos that didn’t turn out, they looked like these. Blogging has been a humbling journey for me. The more open and honest I am with y’all the more free I feel in my spirit! This is such an amazing place to be in.

A year ago, I was deleting these photos and hiding them so no one could ever see me in these “embarrassing” photos. I started saving them a few months back because I wanted to share that, I’m human too. Not everything turns out perfect. I wish I could show the ones that are deleted because they far outshine these lol!

How many photos do you think it takes to get the one perfect dress twirling photo??
30 at least!

Being a blogger in a small town means I know a lot of my followers because they were my friends and family first. I hear feedback regularly and feel discouraged when I hear that they wish they could look like my pictures every day. Truth is, I DON’T look like my pictures every day and that’s OK. 

So here’s my take on showing you the REAL me, not the blogger PROFESSIONAL me. I hope you can laugh alongside these with me because, y’all, they are just that good! *insert laugh crying face*

Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

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Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

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Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

Blog Post HERE

Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

Blog Post HERE

Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

Blog Post HERE

Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

Post HERE

Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

Blog Post HERE

Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

Blog Post HERE

Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

Blog Post HERE

Just remember, behind the edited photos and bright airy Instagram themes, we are all human. We still wake up with messy hair, bad breath, and sleepy eyes! 

Blogger fails, we are human too and not everything is perfectly planned or designed.

 

Life Spring Style

In a world of Kardashians, BE YOU | Coffee & Chat

Do you ever feel like you have to be “somebody” to be successful or to be seen as a person who is going somewhere in life? We have labeled the term of success by comparing uncomparable people and lives.





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Constantly being bombarded by the status quo and what society deems as current is daunting, to say the least. Getting caught up in comparing my place in life to what society says I need to be doing at this point. Truth be told, I am nowhere near what society says I need to be but I am nowhere near where I think I should be either. Life throws curve balls and we have to be able to adjust to them. It hit me, though, why are we so critical of ourselves and each other?

In our world, why are we all trying to be the same person living the same style of life? In my job comparison comes at you like the wind. I’m constantly commenting on how successful one blogger is vs. me, how many more views or “likes” she is getting vs. me, how an outfit looks so much better on her vs. me. This is tearing myself down. Do you have the habit of comparison?

I will get caught up in this and won’t wake up to the fact of my destructive mindset until my husband Jason will bring me back down to solid ground. He reminds me that we all have different purposes and growth. Look for the positives and not the negatives. Bottom line, be true to YOU and only YOU. Especially in my line of work, people want to see the genuine you, the real you. There are too many people that are similar on the outside but never show their heart and what truly makes them stand apart.

This has resonated with me over the past couple weeks. I opened up about it on my IG stories, asking if I should stick to one style for a better flow or keep sharing all my styles that truly make up me. Let’s be honest, I have a multiple personality disorder when it comes to fashion. I love it all in one way or another!

The responses I received from you gals encouraged me to keep sharing it all. The thankfulness that came from you seeing my example and knowing that having multiple styles was ok. To stay true to me was so much better than trying to fit in or be like everyone else. From the bottom of my heart, I want to say thank you. Your messages brought tears to my eyes in a time of uncertainty and brought clarity.

I love polka dots but I also love camo. Stripes give me joy but so do florals. I am obsessed with pink but love green and blue. Red is my jam in the Winter and brightens up the Holidays. I love working out but I also love twirling in frilly dresses. Hiking makes me smile and I even don’t mind a little dirt. I love wearing bold makeup but am also perfectly happy with a simple lip gloss and mascara day.

All of this to say, is that when you struggle thinking you need to be a certain person or have a certain job to be deemed as successful, stop. Be true to who you are and not like anyone else. Success isn’t measured on the things we can see or count. We measure success in our heart and soul. Where is our heart when we are measuring our success?

One of the biggest ways I have started to challenge myself when I struggle with feeling unsuccessful or focusing on where I “should” be in my life, I seek the Lord to calm my spirit and lift me up knowing that I am doing His work and that is where my success lies. If you are doing His work and you’re not living up to societies standards, you are doing an amazing job! What we are using to measure our success will prove to expose the truth which is often the opposite of what we think. Are you measuring with the world as your ruler or the Lord?

In a world full of “successful” people like the Kardashians, be YOU.

The world needs more of YOU and less of them.

Life Tips and Tricks

Ways to stay motivated | with no motivation. *GIVEAWAY*

How to stay motivated when you have no motivation. How to stay motivated when you have no motivation.

Do you ever have those moments where you feel like you are down on your luck, low on energy, or not where you want to be? Me too. Too often I feel like. I am sharing 20 ways to stay motivated with you’re not feeling motivated. 

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I can’t be the only one that sometimes loses their drive. Being an entrepreneur is hard sometimes. I am a one woman show (besides my hubby being my photographer once a week). When you have a team to motivate you and encourage you during times of lulls, you are so much more productive. This rings true for stay at home mamas, side hobbies, business owners, retired careers, and so many more. 

I have been an entrepreneur for over 3 years now. Those 3 years haven’t always been roses and cupcakes, although that sounds rather fabulous. There have been days I have thought about throwing in the towel. There have been days I have thought about not taking those pictures. There have been days I have thought about not meeting that deadline. Have I ever done these things? No. I have 20 reasons that have saved me from giving up or staying in a pit of despair about my blog and myself. 

20 Ways to stay Motivated:

  1. Seek support.
  2. Know your “why”. Why you do what you do.
  3. Create a space that inspires you.
  4. Seek new content or surroundings daily.
  5. Take space from projects (or kiddos) for a bit to refresh your mind.
  6.  Keep yourself organized.
  7. Take care of yourself. A healthy body leads to productivity.
  8. If you’re an entrepreneur: dress up your office supplies to bring a fresh look to your day. I dressed up my phone with this customized Caseapp Case and my laptop with this customized Caseapp Skin. This is a huge one for me. I work on my phone and computer all day every day. They were so boring! I love that Caseapp has premade designs or you can create your own. This is a motivation in itself! Mama’s, put a family picture on your phone case!
  9. Refresh your senses with a candle or an essential oil diffused in your home.
  10. Get up and get dressed. Seriously, this one is motivation on my days off.
  11. Plan breaks. Everybody needs a break now and again, hire a babysitter and go out for an hour.
  12. Pamper yourself: within your means. Paint your nails, get your haircut, put on a facial mask.
  13. Write scripture or quotes on your mirror. I do this A LOT! Especially if I am struggling with my appearance. It’s something I learned in my eating disorder treatment.
  14. Put together an inspiration board. This can be a physical board in your room or office, or it can be one on Pinterest. Put things up that motivate you to push through on your side business, being a mom, a friend, a homemaker, career woman, etc.
  15. Spend time with people that encourage you. It may be your co-workers or it may be your best friend. My husband is a huge encouragement for me, along with my mama and my blogging bestie.
  16. Stay Positive. Easier said than done but so so so important!
  17. Invest in others. When you are investing in other people, you get energized in your own life. I love my bible study women because when I leave I know I invested in their lives and they invested in mine.
  18. Coffee! Ok, hear me out. Coffee helps me get out of bed in the morning. Find what helps you swing those legs out of those comfy blankets and start your day.
  19. Set goals. I have a huge list of lofty goals but I also have a daily list of goals that I can get done through my day. There are check boxes next to them any everything. Whatever helps you!
  20. Remember that there will ALWAYS be good days and bad days. It’s OK to have a bad day.

I hope some of these things truly help you. They have helped me so much during the times that I feel like I can’t keep going. If you have found something that has helped you and I haven’t listed it, please share!

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 How to stay motivated when you have no motivation.

How to stay motivated when you have no motivation. How to stay motivated when you have no motivation. How to stay motivated when you have no motivation.